After 90, Please Think About It Before You Quit.
First of all, before choosing a job, you must not be sure of your goals, nor have you seriously considered what kind of person you want to be and what kind of life you want to live in.
Instead of simply maintaining a living, he chose a job carelessly.
And the real work found that this is not what I imagined, and I didn't like it, plus hard work and complicated interpersonal relationships, so I couldn't afford to quit.
As career planners, we suggest that before you enter the workplace, it is better to carefully analyze your abilities and skills, and analyze these skills and abilities from the things you once thought you were proud of or fulfilled.
At the same time, you can understand what your values are by means of Hollander career assessment, value screening, and so on, and roughly analyze their suitable career types. In order to further understand, you can also do some career interviews to see what people are doing in this job, and what their current state is, so as to help themselves make the right choice.
In career planning, we studied the clover model. These three values are values, interests and abilities.
If a job can satisfy all three of you, this job will be a perfect job for you.
But in real life, such a perfect situation is almost 1/10000.
However, if your work can satisfy two of them, the other one can be satisfied through adjustment.
Lack of ability can be met by improving ability or reducing demand.
Lack of interest, can not be resolved in the occupation, can find jobs outside interest to do, so as to make up for the lack of occupation.
And values can not be satisfied, we need to analyze concretely to see if your core values are not satisfied.
If not all values are met, but they can satisfy your core values, then this job is more suitable for you.
But if you can't satisfy your core values, then you need to consider changing your job.
If you are currently engaged in the choice of the above principles, I believe you will not choose to quit so easily.
Secondly, do you understand that there are three stages of career, survival, development and self actualization?
As a post-90 generation, you are in a lifetime.
The most important prerequisite for this stage is to ensure that you can feed yourself.
The easiest and fastest way to get into an industry is to find a job that can support yourself first by relying on the professional skills and advantages you are good at.
But after entering the workplace for a while, maybe you will find that the actual situation is not satisfactory. There is a big gap between what you want and what you want. The content is not very popular, or the work is hard, the boss is strict, the company is strict in management, the interpersonal relationship is complex, the salary is low and so on.
But I tell you, these are the lessons you need to learn and learn in the workplace, which you can't learn in school.
You can't blindly choose to quit because of these problems.
If one wants to mix in the workplace, he must go through these trials.
You have to learn self-control, learn self-discipline, and learn how to manage yourself.
emotion
Learn how to deal with different kinds of people, especially those you don't like.
Communicate
Learn how to work together and so on.
In fact, these hardships seem painful, but as long as you stick to your teeth, you will eventually find that you have grown a lot, and gradually grow from a college student who is not deeply involved in the world to a truly competent and capable professional talent.
Because what we learn in school is only professional skills and knowledge. In fact, what is really needed in the workplace is excellent professional accomplishment and professional quality.
And what you have experienced is just the best gift to help you grow.
So you must stick to it. Don't be afraid of setbacks and fear of pain.
You must believe this.
When you go through
Workplace
With these practices, you will find that your heart has become stronger and more powerful.
At this time, your feathers are also plentiful. When you have better opportunities, you can always fly high and fly better.
Finally, I want to tell you after 90, please believe in yourself, and you can't overcome it. You are stronger than you think! Thank you for your frustration and thank you for the pain, because they make you stronger and better!
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